Tag: financial independence

Follow your dreams…but what dreams?

Sylvie had, has, the voice of an angel.  The sort of voice that you hear in your dreams.  I met her at University and even in her late teens, when she sang it would lift your soul, or bring you to laughter, or tears.  Sometimes it would do all three in the course of five…

By Caveman March 10, 2020 5

Days of leaves and loss

Everyone has their favourite season. Some live for the long, sultry days and balmy evenings of Summer. Others enjoy the chilled noses, open fires and hibernation of Winter. Still other revel in Spring, the promise of new life, the sense of nature stretching out and walking up in the gentle sun and showers. Personally, I…

By Caveman December 3, 2019 9

The joy of doing Financial Independence wrong

A lot of the time I feel like I’m doing financial independence wrong. Basically I don’t find it particularly hard. Not from a practical point of view anyway (the emotional side is different). From an everyday perspective financial independence is meant to be a slog right? Putting in the hours today for a better tomorrow.…

By Caveman August 6, 2019 23

Work less hard, you won’t regret it

Do you feel like you work too hard? Spend too many hours in the office or commuting? You’re not alone. People on their deathbeds wish they hadn’t worked so hard. It’s a cliché isn’t it? I certainly find myself often saying or thinking: “No one says on their deathbed that they wished they had spent…

By Caveman July 11, 2019 7

Why your 30s and 40s are an optimal age to start towards Financial Independence

Does anyone else have a pang of regret that they didn’t stumble across the concept of financial independence sooner? I’ve certainly felt like that. It must be pretty common. A version of the fear of having missed out. So many of the poster children for Financial Independence retired in their 30s or at least by…

By Caveman July 4, 2019 21

Love your job: Why I love my job and you should love yours

I love my job. There you go. I’ve said it. I don’t care who knows it. This is my Tom-Cruise-on-Oprah moment. That was amazing. Of course we all know how THAT went, right? …sorry let me just take this call… “Hello…Yes….Yes…What?…They’ve WHAT?!?!?…When??!?!?…Oh….Oh, I see. OK Bye” Um. Anyway. Maybe ignore that last bit. But you…

By Caveman May 23, 2019 12

Investing in rental property. Why I hate the idea.

Investing in rental property. Easy money, right? Put down a deposit. Get someone else to pay off your mortgage. Enjoy a steady income of effortless income every month. That’s even before you think about the returns from the property rising in value. That’s been the narrative for years. While the dream may have been tarnished…

By Caveman May 16, 2019 26

Why I would love to lose my job

OK I’m going to put up front that I think that I’m going to come across as a bit of a tool in this post. More than a bit actually. Today is all about why I would really like to lose my job. I know. What a privileged, oblivious, idiot. For most people losing their…

By Caveman May 9, 2019 24

When I grow up: My hopes and fears when I achieve financial independence

It was the morning of Friday the 24th of June 2016. I can place it precisely as it was the day after the UK had voted to leave the European Union. My emotions were all over the place: Sadness, fear but also something that may have been tendrils of excitement. But I had to put…

By Caveman April 15, 2019 10

External networking: How to get your introverted mojo on outside your organisation

It was the middle of a typically boring afternoon, in the middle of a typically boring day, in the middle of a typically boring week at work. My mobile rang. It was a headhunter who’d been chucking me a series of, frankly, uninteresting opportunities over the last year. My instinct was to hit reject but,…

By Caveman April 10, 2019 6