Tag: work

Days of leaves and loss

Everyone has their favourite season. Some live for the long, sultry days and balmy evenings of Summer. Others enjoy the chilled noses, open fires and hibernation of Winter. Still other revel in Spring, the promise of new life, the sense of nature stretching out and walking up in the gentle sun and showers. Personally, I…

By Caveman December 3, 2019 9

The seductive peril of loving your job

If there was a time when I did anything other than sit in meetings with lawyers and bankers and consultants, I’m not sure I can recall it.  There must have been a point where I didn’t do any work on weekends, but if there was it’s lost to my recollection.  I go to sleep thinking…

By Caveman November 25, 2019 3

Work less hard, you won’t regret it

Do you feel like you work too hard? Spend too many hours in the office or commuting? You’re not alone. People on their deathbeds wish they hadn’t worked so hard. It’s a cliché isn’t it? I certainly find myself often saying or thinking: “No one says on their deathbed that they wished they had spent…

By Caveman July 11, 2019 7

Break the routine: The destructive power of unthinking repetition

Those who have been following my story will know I’m doing some serious thinking about what I want from life. As part of that I’ve been contemplating what, exactly, is holding me back from making big changes. Fear is part of that, but that’s too generic to work with. Breaking down my thinking I have…

By Caveman June 7, 2019 14

Love your job: Why I love my job and you should love yours

I love my job. There you go. I’ve said it. I don’t care who knows it. This is my Tom-Cruise-on-Oprah moment. That was amazing. Of course we all know how THAT went, right? …sorry let me just take this call… “Hello…Yes….Yes…What?…They’ve WHAT?!?!?…When??!?!?…Oh….Oh, I see. OK Bye” Um. Anyway. Maybe ignore that last bit. But you…

By Caveman May 23, 2019 12

Investing in rental property. Why I hate the idea.

Investing in rental property. Easy money, right? Put down a deposit. Get someone else to pay off your mortgage. Enjoy a steady income of effortless income every month. That’s even before you think about the returns from the property rising in value. That’s been the narrative for years. While the dream may have been tarnished…

By Caveman May 16, 2019 26

Why I would love to lose my job

OK I’m going to put up front that I think that I’m going to come across as a bit of a tool in this post. More than a bit actually. Today is all about why I would really like to lose my job. I know. What a privileged, oblivious, idiot. For most people losing their…

By Caveman May 9, 2019 24

In praise of paying tax: A personal polemic

As Nina Simone almost certainly meant to have sung: “It’s a new dawn, it’s a new day, it’s a new tax year for me….and I’m feeling good.” Ah yes April. The beginning of a new tax year. Empty tax-exempt saving accounts like ISA’s waiting to be filled, new pension allowances just begging to be used,…

By Caveman April 19, 2019 10

External networking: How to get your introverted mojo on outside your organisation

It was the middle of a typically boring afternoon, in the middle of a typically boring day, in the middle of a typically boring week at work. My mobile rang. It was a headhunter who’d been chucking me a series of, frankly, uninteresting opportunities over the last year. My instinct was to hit reject but,…

By Caveman April 10, 2019 6

An M-Shaped life. Unlocking career success and Financial Independence

“Have you ever climbed a mountain?” I looked up as Nimit posed his question. It was Madrid. About 10pm on a beautiful Iberian night. I was in my second year as a management consultant and I’d been sent to Spain to help an internet start-up. As was pretty typical for our company it was a…

By Caveman March 28, 2019 10